Podcast: https://anchor.fm/nobelia/episodes/Ask-Biella—How-do-you-become-a-happy-pessimist–I-just-dont-know-how-to-think-positively-e1hn5s “How do you become a happy pessimist? I just don’t know how to think positively.“ Dear Kerry, A few perspectives come to mind, most concerning definitions. Let’s look at what we
Podcast: https://anchor.fm/nobelia/episodes/54-Ask-Biella—How-do-I-self-talk-e2jslg Train The Brain Dear Questioner, the key with self-talk is to make it real and believable, as well as having it represent our goal. Let’s say one wants to deal with a
Podcast: https://anchor.fm/nobelia/episodes/Ask-Biella—How-do-you-figure-out-your-Lifes-Purpose-e2be8o “Can you achieve happiness through analysis and introspection? Can you achieve happiness through philosophy? How do you figure out your life’s purpose?” – MF Unhooking from Assumptions Dear MF, start by
Podcast: https://anchor.fm/nobelia/episodes/Ask-Biella—How-can-I-make-things-more-meaningful–especially-people-e2dsn4 Gifts-of-Example Dear K, we are all amazing. We are all Gifts to each other. Gifts in so many ways. In one way in particular: The Gift inherent in our Way-of-Being. I have long
Podcast: https://anchor.fm/nobelia/episodes/Ask-Biella—Can-online-games-like-MMOs-be-meaningful-irl-e2cips The Game of Life Dear Gamer, I’ll start with the end. It’s just as relevant as a beginning: “We are inherently it seems, predisposed to dislike and avoid uselessness and meaninglessness. If
Podcast: https://anchor.fm/nobelia/episodes/Ask-Biella—Can-you-help-me-understand-self-pity-better-e2b7kn “My friend is always full of self-pity and doesn’t see how bad that is. Can you help me understand self-pity better?“ Distorted Self-Importance Dear H, Self-pity is a devastating personal evil. Why
Podcast: https://Anchor.fm/Nobelia Mood Management Biella was asked: “You talk of the New Nobility being focused on just *Being.* But what do they *Do,* to just Be?” “Mood Management,” Biella simply said. She looked over
Podcast: https://Anchor.fm/Nobelia “Should you hold onto something that doesn’t make you happy?” “Should” Dear Jennifer, should is a tricky beast. Or, as I like to call it: “Should.” The question to ask is,
Podcast: https://is.gd/WbgElI “How do you maintain your positive outlook in life?“ Positive Necessity Dear Sandy, A young Man story is particularly pertinent to your question. In his words as he answered the same question
Podcast: https://Anchor.fm/Nobelia “Since everyone sees the world from different perspectives, who has the right to say what is insane and what is sane?“ Dear John, #3 Sanity I like to think of sanity as
Podcast: Anchor.fm/Nobelia “Is there a step by step for setting intent?” Wants and Desires If I have to say, I’d say it starts with tuning in to what we really really want. But
Podcast: https://Anchor.fm/Nobelia Earnest Goodness “What is something that always
